An intimate experience for singles who are done with swiping — and ready to actually connect.
Orbites is a curated social evening for 25 selected singles. Real conversations. Guided — but never scripted. No awkward rejection. Just an evening you'll actually remember.
Dating apps are broken. Static profiles,
shallow bios, endless swiping —
alone on your couch, reading two sentences
about someone who "loves to travel."
But the real problem runs deeper.
Most people aren't yet ready to receive the relationship they claim to want. No app addresses that. Alem does.
Every guest is personally selected based on lifestyle compatibility — not just age and distance. If you're in the room, there's a real reason.
The evening is guided by a conversation deck — three levels of depth, chosen together. You decide how far you go. Nothing is forced.
After the evening, you indicate who moved you. If it's mutual — you'll know within 48 hours. If not — just silence. No one knows who didn't choose them.
A short questionnaire — your lifestyle, what you're looking for, a song that represents you tonight. We personally review every application and select 25 people who have a real reason to meet.
Each guest receives a unique constellation name and a personalised card with a secret mission for the evening. Music, guided conversations, and genuine moments — nothing scripted, nothing awkward.
Within 24 hours, you receive a link. Indicate the constellations that moved you. If it's mutual — you'll know. If not — silence. No awkward "I saw you rejected me." Just clarity, or possibility.
Orbites isn't for everyone. It's for people who are genuinely curious — about others and about themselves. People who are done performing and ready to actually show up.
The first Orbites evening is coming to Calgary in June 2026. 25 places. One evening. A format you've never experienced. Applications are open now — spots are limited and reviewed personally.
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Orbites is the first real-world experience of what Alem is building — a lifestyle ecosystem that helps you become the person who attracts what they desire. Not a dating app. A different approach entirely.
Identifies the gap between who you are today and who you need to be to attract what you desire. Guides you through micro-actions — week by week. No other platform does this.
Orbites is just the beginning. Intimate group experiences curated by lifestyle compatibility — not algorithms. Activities, not awkward speed dating. Real people, real reasons to meet.
Matching based on how you actually live — your rhythm, your values, your attachment style. A living profile that evolves as you evolve. Not a static résumé for romance.